Could You Wait 5 Years for Sex?

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I’ve already been waiting for 24 years to have sex, but that’s not by choice, so it’s different. Now someone asking me to wait a set amount of years just to have sex with them, now that could cause some problems. Mushoku Tensei brought up the hard hitting question of, could you wait 5 years to have sex with someone?

Now for me personally, I feel like there’s a few things that would factor in when making this decision. One, how much do I like this girl? Two, do I have feelings for any other girls? And three, did I already have sex before? I feel like this. If I wasn’t a virgin and a girl that I was in a relationship with and that I loved wanted me to wait 5 years, then I think I could survive. But if I was still a virgin and a girl wanted me to wait 5 extra years on top of my already sexless life, then that might be a hard no for me. The scary thing is, what if I decided to wait those 5 years, and when the 2 year mark hits, she decides to break up with me. So you’re telling me I waited 2 years, just for her to leave me. I would be so fucking pissed!

So yeah, it totally depends on different factors, it’s not just a simple yes or no question. Love is strong, but sex is also strong, and it’s even stronger when someone is a virgin.

You can say that again.

Could you wait 5 years to have sex? Would you tell someone to wait 5 years for sex? How long could you wait to have sex? Tell us in the comments.

Anon - Gothine 3 years ago

Yes. So long as I can still nut during those 5 years. If I'm being blue balled those 5 years then fuck that.

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Gennos 3 years ago

Jobless Reincarnation is a bad example. This situation is between two kids and a responsible decision to wait. As for adults, it all comes down to what both parties are willing to accept. If she's older, and stringing you along, there's a good chance you're the backup plan. Kick her to the curb.

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Anon - Origami 3 years ago

No. Fuck that. There is not a single person on the planet I would wait five years just to fuck. Have some self respect.

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Itasian 3 years ago

It has already been 7 since I last had sex. So yeah 5 is nothing

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---------------- 3 years ago

It depends. What do we mean by "sex" in this context? What other conditions are involved? For example, "Let's wait five years before sex, but I don't mind if we do anything that isn't the real thing," is VERY different from, "No touching anywhere with anything for either of us!" and, "You might go to prison," or "I'm not ready yet," is not equivalent to, "Jesus says, 'abstinence until marriage.'"

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Anon - Karen 3 years ago

If a girl tells you to wait, she will never fuck you.

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jupmod 3 years ago

Depends. Is she just stringing you along or does she is the one who wants to wait? Makes me wonder if she is serious about a relationship if she just strings the guy along. While you're asking this question, how about asking if one is willing to wait until marriage until you can have sex?

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MrObvious 3 years ago

Yeah I can wait. Yet again I've been a lone wolf my entire life so there. As sadistic as it may sound I just might to test her character, yet again that may encourage cheating so there.

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koas2367 3 years ago

The mc and girl were underage. In their shoes I'd say okay. As myself who's had sex though, I'd probably still say okay, because there's no guarantee I will or wont get laid before then. In my head though, I'm not gonna stop myself if another opportunity with someone who's attractive offers. I'll just be honest in 5 years if she asks and not say if she doesn't.

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umknown 3 years ago (edited 3 years ago)

I have waited 32 years minus the two people I had minor oral encounters in my early years I could wait 5 more. As long as I am still allowed to masturbate.

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