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What is a Milf Really?
By ImJustThatKinky • 4 years ago
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When presenting this question, I’m not really talking about the actual definition. I’m talking more about what are people 's general consensus on what we consider a milf. Because like some other words, the term milf just gets thrown around seemingly willy nilly.


She's wearing an apron. MILF ALERT!


Now the actual definition of milf is a mom that you would like to fuck. But that’s not the only time people use it. The word is also used for when a woman is just older and maybe has a mom look going on about her. A woman could be thicc and in her late 30’s and be considered a milf. But wouldn’t that be a cougar? It seems like the term cougar has stopped being an older woman who’s horny for younger boys and instead used to describe a woman who’s maybe in her 60’s and horny for young boys.


This is a cougar from what the title fo the hentai The Cougar Trap tells us.


So I’m just wondering what you guys think, cause I know I use the term milf more to describe an older woman who has a very motherly look about them. The term cougar is kind of dead in my vocabulary.


What do you consider a milf? Is the term cougar dead? How bad do you want to fuck a milf? Tell us in the comments below.



jupmod 4 years ago
I agree with another poster that the keyword is "mother". She have to be a mother in order to be a MILF. If she's not a mother and is older than 35 (IMO), I would use the word "cougar". When I see "MILF" in the doujin tags, I would expect the woman to be a mother, not just an older woman. It's misleading to throw the MILF tag around for women who are not mothers.
Oddest Ball 4 years ago
The term "mother" is the crucial part of the equation. She must have given birth or adopted at some point. You can do all these wishy-washy half-assed substitutions like simply being "past her prime", "in her 30s" or whatever, but that's diet MILF at best and word mangling at worst. It's like substituting hamburger meat with tofu.
Taking issue with the taggers at long last, eh Kinky?
hmudyd25 4 years ago
if she doesn't have kids then shes not a milf. that's legitimately the turn on for me.
kelb 4 years ago
For me, the difference between a cougar and milf is aesthetic. A cougar is putting herself out there clearlly on the prowl and hunting for dick. A milf is hot but reserved. She's more of a mom-jeans and sweater kind of gal, compared to the cougar's thigh-cut leopard print cocktail dress.

I suppose if I have to put it in a nutshell: you gotta hunt for milfs while the cougars are hunting for you.
Hectotane 4 years ago
I don't think "cougar" is a dead term. It means a single woman, 30 years plus, who's hungry for young cock.

A MILF is a married mother, also 30 years plus, who's just hungry for sex in general.

People who are new to these terms should not mess with them IMMHO. Also, we find out that grannies still wanna fuck.
Anon - anon 4 years ago
quite simple really. milf is what it stands for . it is a mother who one wants to fuck. those are the only requirements. age, boob size, etc, all irrelevant. all that makes a milf is that she is A: a mother, and B: I want to fuck her. period. that being said, the milf genre is over saturated with your typical big breasted and big butt milf. people need to practice drawing with some more variety.
Anon - The Truth 4 years ago
Milf is more an attitude than it is a physically definite state of being. If you're a 30-year-old widow with huge saggy tits, a fat ass, and you're wearing a button-down in tight jeans, you're a fucking milf. I'm sorry. You don't HAVE to be a mother to be a MILF. It's more of a general rule than it is the one rule that matters. Often single 30-somethings are WAY hotter than sad, tired moms.
uaquoo 4 years ago
I go by the criteria that she has to be over 35 and with a kid in the teens.
Anon - Sorey 4 years ago
To be fair I see a lot of valid points concerning MILF but the thing is:
I associate cougar with women beyond 60 (and I don't think I'm alone) and milf sounds just fine for adult women between 30 to
I wonder if there's a term for that specific category other than "older women" which is very broad mind you
Anon - Karen 4 years ago
(1/2) By the loosest definition, a mom I love to fuck could be of any age. Wikipedia lists the youngest mother as five years old.
However, I would say that because of porn and hentai, a milf is at least 35, married or previously married, children ironically optional.
Cougar is an older woman who is aggressive about her man hunting. Say 40 and older. Someone past her prime.