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Getting Jealous At Your Partner Watching Porn?
By ImJustThatKinky • 4 years ago
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Jealousy is something that we all experience. Maybe it’s a girl you like from afar talking to some other guy that isn’t you. Maybe it’s your girlfriend talking about one of her guy friends a little too much. Hell, it could even be your homie hanging out with his other friends more than you. Either way, jealousy is something we experience. But is it weird to be jealous of someone in porn?


I hear about relationships where the male or female partner will cut their partner off of any porn because they consider it cheating. One part of me can see this logic, while the other part of me, the horny part of me, can’t see the logic. Yes, if you are in a relationship, that person could satisfy your sexual needs instead of porn. But porn has so much more varity that one partner can’t provide. And if the partner is tired or doesn’t feel like having sex that day, I can just hit up some porn.


Now, you might be okay with your partner watching some porn from time to time. But what if she talked about it. Or talked about how much it turned her one. Like talking about how she loved how wet the guy made her, or how sexy he was. Would that make you jealous? You still have her, and you’re the one fucking her, so you should be okay with that. Girls in porn make you bust a huge nut all the time. But I feel like talking about it would make it so in your face that she’s getting off to another guy, instead of you just knowing she’s watching porn in the back of your mind.



Dude chill. It's just some guy in porn.


When I get a girl, I know I wouldn’t care if she watched porn. I watch it all the time, so I shouldn’t care. But I would prefer not to know how that guy's big cock made her drool and her pussy super wet, thank you very much.


Have you ever been jealous? Do you think you would be jealous if your partner told you about how someone else in porn made them feel? Is cutting a partner off of porn too far? Tell us in the comments.



Anon - Cumsoomer 4 years ago
I'd understand why someone would break up with there if they watched porn and didn't tell them. It leaves them feeling that they aren't doing enough and that their partner no longer has any interest. Then again this is from a guy who hasn't dated anyone in 5 years so things may have changed
Anon - anon 4 years ago
those who feel it is cheating are insecure. that goes for everyone, men, women and everyone outside or in between. people need variety and unless you want them searching irl, let them have their porn. besides people can learn things from watching porn that they can use in practice as long as they can separate the real from the unrealistic. looking at those who draw oversized boobs!
exodusee7 4 years ago
Porn is common. Everyone has a fetish, or desire, and porn is there to scratch the itch, nothing more, nothing less. Anyone who doesn't get that and even worse, thinks their partner watching porn is some form of infidelity and wants to break up with them is fucking retarded, end of story. If this happened to you, trust me, you're 100x better off without that loser.
BunnyBow 4 years ago
The biggest thing would probably if the smut is a replacement for the girlfriend/boyfriend. Sure things like toys and porn can spice things up. But if someone feels like they are being replaced, that isn't fair.
Oddest Ball 4 years ago
It could help give some inspiration for the bedroom.
Anon - Anon 4 years ago
I think that watching porn is a form of fantasy,all you see is a movie,a fiction that fills a certain need. I don't think it's cheating,if the relationship has a healthy sex routine where both parties are satisfied,then you can even take certain ideas from porn and try them out,It would be a problem if one of them starts to pay more atention to porn. Either way I wouldn´t like to know the details.
jupmod 4 years ago
If your significant other enjoys porn as you do, why not watch together? It might get you really horny to have hot sweaty sex. Yet if the other does not watch or like porn, well, he or she better be okay with you watching or else it would not be a great relationship if he or she wants you to ditch it. Unless he or she is a great lover to make you stop watching, that is.
MrObvious 4 years ago
I wouldn't be since one shade of my waifu type is the shameless tomboy who has a collection under her bed ala Kanbaru Suruga. I'd then dispel her fantasies by rocking her world all night, she won't even want porn after I'm done! Sometimes giving your partner an extra fun(and perverse) time is all it takes. Not talking from experience but that's how I'd handle this.
Anon - Some Dude 4 years ago
If I was jealous at all, I wouldn't have told her to use this site
Anon - anon 4 years ago
If you look at it as the high libido partner using porn to supplement the relationship that is one thing, but a shy low libido partner may use porn to get away from the more personal sex time, and that is probably the issue with high libido or just bad timing partners that feel cheated out of sex