
Back in the day, my quick answer would have been HELL NO!!! I could never be in a poly relationship. Actually, I’m getting ahead of myself. For you people who don’t know, a poly or polyamorous relationship is when you're in a romantic relationship with more then just one person while having the consent of the other parties involved. So no cheating here!
Now like I said, this used to be a hard no for me, but with my recent experience, I’ve changed my perspective a little bit. Different people make you see things in a different light, and when you truly want to be with someone, some things about you start to change. The hardest thing about being in a poly relationship is jealousy. If anyone is jealous of anyone else, that can cause a huge divide in the whole system. So if you’re a jealous individual, then poly is definitely not for you.
Ladies, I love you both equally. No need to fight.
Like I said, depending on the person, I feel like I can deal with a poly relationship. Now if a random hot girl on the street asked did I want to go out with her, I’d say yes. Now if she said do I want to go out with her and her partner, I would say no, and if she asked did I want to go out with her and her boyfriend I would say HELL NO! I feel like trying to be in a poly relationship with two guys and one girl is way more scarier than being in a relationship with two girls and one guy. But hey, that’s me.
See, this is what happens when you're in a poly relationship with one girl and five guys.
Have you heard of polyamorous relationship? Could you be in a polyamorous relationship? As a guy, do you think it would be more difficult to be in a polyamorous relationship with two dudes and one girl? Tell us in the comments.
Also it really only works if EVERYONE is willing to be okay with the idea. For me? I still don't think so. I barely like people enough as it is and am too lazy to try to make a romantic 1 on 1 work, let alone whatever shape you might think would happen.
a) Muslim men can marry up to four wives. Not necessarily they DO, but they CAN.
b) Rich Chinese tycoons do still take concubines and mistresses, sometimes with the approval of the wife. Mostly in HK and Macau, but it happens all over the country.
Multiple girls, multiple guys - so long as everybody gets along and the whole group is financially sound, I don't see a problem.
with the most poly of persons.