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Could You Be in a Poly Relationship?
By ImJustThatKinky • 4 years ago
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Back in the day, my quick answer would have been HELL NO!!! I could never be in a poly relationship. Actually, I’m getting ahead of myself. For you people who don’t know, a poly or polyamorous relationship is when you're in a romantic relationship with more then just one person while having the consent of the other parties involved. So no cheating here!


Now like I said, this used to be a hard no for me, but with my recent experience, I’ve changed my perspective a little bit. Different people make you see things in a different light, and when you truly want to be with someone, some things about you start to change. The hardest thing about being in a poly relationship is jealousy. If anyone is jealous of anyone else, that can cause a huge divide in the whole system. So if you’re a jealous individual, then poly is definitely not for you.



Ladies, I love you both equally. No need to fight.


Like I said, depending on the person, I feel like I can deal with a poly relationship. Now if a random hot girl on the street asked did I want to go out with her, I’d say yes. Now if she said do I want to go out with her and her partner, I would say no, and if she asked did I want to go out with her and her boyfriend I would say HELL NO! I feel like trying to be in a poly relationship with two guys and one girl is way more scarier than being in a relationship with two girls and one guy. But hey, that’s me.



See, this is what happens when you're in a poly relationship with one girl and five guys.


Have you heard of polyamorous relationship? Could you be in a polyamorous relationship? As a guy, do you think it would be more difficult to be in a polyamorous relationship with two dudes and one girl? Tell us in the comments.



Anon - Cumsoomer 4 years ago
Call me a hopeless romantic, but I'm the type of guy who can't see themselves in that situation. I've seen many people who tried that only to end up have it to blow up in their face either because they caught STDs or for them to end up becoming forced into situations that they normally wouldn't end up in, like drug-abuse, out of fear of being kicked out and left alone. TLDR: Poly causes Problems
Eroforever 4 years ago
I've seen School Days. Not risking it.
Also it really only works if EVERYONE is willing to be okay with the idea. For me? I still don't think so. I barely like people enough as it is and am too lazy to try to make a romantic 1 on 1 work, let alone whatever shape you might think would happen.
Hectotane 4 years ago
My idea of a poly-tionship: All the girls are friends with each other, and I'm one of the lucky guys who get to have sex with one or two of them.
jupmod 4 years ago
i don't mind being in a poly relationship with more than one girl, but only if the girls do not mind sharing. With one girl with other guys, forget it. By nature, males are always competitive and it is shown other animals have mostly just one male with a harem of females. It does not work the other way around. After all, one male can fertilize many females, but not possible the other way for peopl
Anon - Karen 4 years ago
Two things:
a) Muslim men can marry up to four wives. Not necessarily they DO, but they CAN.
b) Rich Chinese tycoons do still take concubines and mistresses, sometimes with the approval of the wife. Mostly in HK and Macau, but it happens all over the country.
Multiple girls, multiple guys - so long as everybody gets along and the whole group is financially sound, I don't see a problem.
---------------- 4 years ago
Heard of them? Yes, plenty. Could I be in one? I'll have to say yes, but only in a limited way. I'm fine with dating (up to) two girls at once, and I'd be fine with dating a woman who's herself dating/fucking another girl (or more than just one), but I'm not good sharing with other guys. But I'm kind of a horrible person, and my brain doesn't even think of it as cheating if its between two women.
Beheaded-king 4 years ago
I could be in a poly relationship. and have no problem with there being a another guy in the mix. As long there is no my hole is another entrance for him BS. I'll be down for it actually.
exodusee7 4 years ago
Nope. People are possessive by nature, and the idea of "sharing" someone will never sit 100% right, even
with the most poly of persons.
Anon - King Bitch 4 years ago
I agree; this probably could only work with two girls, and only with everyone's consent. Chappelle said it best; MFF is teamwork, but MMF is straight-up brutal.
Clit Yeastwodd 4 years ago
I'm in a polyamorous relationship :)