There’s a lot of different things you can do in the bedroom. Some things I’m more comfortable doing than others, but something that always made me a little worried is getting rough. Rough sex is super pleasing to look at, and seems like it can be fun if done right. But I’m always afraid that I might get too rough or my girl will ask me to do something more than just fuck her harder. I’m afraid that she’ll ask me to choke her.

This is not what I thought she meant when she said harder.

Choking is already such a wild thing. Who the fuck would want to get choked? But, I tried it once on myself, just to understand it more. And when they say choke, I believe they just mean putting a little pressure on their neck. I don’t think they are asking you to actually choke the fuck out of them like you’re trying to kill the bitch. Maybe they’re talking about that, but that’s not me homie. I’ll be fine with just a gentle grip around the neck thank you.

Okay. Now this might be a little too much choking.

I do think I’d be fine with a girl choking me during sex, but I guess it also depends on how hard. My fear is that you’ll get so in the moment that you grip too hard. If you’re choking, a safeword isn’t going to help you. So it’s a kink that you have to be really careful about, and also do with someone you trust. 

What do you think about choking? Would you choke your girlfriend if she asked? Would you like to be choked during sex? Tell us in the comments.